The real view from above is that Tuesday at Beth Jacob congregation, those who have not been evacuated will be collecting and organizing donations of bedding and baby items to be delivered to QualComm stadium for those who have been displaced. The real view from above is that the Hebrew Day School, Chabad, Beth El, Adat Yeshurun, and others have kept their phone lines manned to coordinate offers of shelter for those in areas that have been evacuated. Chabad UC has even organized a playgroup and babysitting so that the children can play indoors, where the air is not flowing with smoke and white ash.
–Michelle K. Gross MichelleInSanDiego  has a list of items needed for donation; web-sites of affected congregations in Poway, Scripps Ranch, and Rancho Bernardo; and children's activities